Unique
and Personal Celebrations of Everlasting Love
(WMS) - As wedding season
approaches, soon-to-be brides and grooms are busy with the many
facets of the marriage ceremony, including their vows. The exchange
of vows is the emotional zenith of a wedding, with spoken words
of commitment expressing love and devotion.
These vows, like other
elements of the wedding ceremony, are becoming more personal, from
special poems written by the bride and groom to custom-designed
wedding certificates.
"A growing number of
couples of all faiths are asking artists to record their marriage
vows," says Jonathan Kremer, an artist whose company, Heartscroll:
The Art of LoveŽ, specializes in preserving and memorializing wedding
vows. "Each couple has to find their own special voice when putting
feelings into words."
Here are a few tips for
couples contemplating their vows:
Check it out. Consult with the person officiating at your ceremony
to find out where -- and if -- you may insert a personal statement
in the ceremony.
Find literary
inspiration. The Bible, Shakespeare, Kahlil Gibran and Pablo Neruda
are just a few of the more popular resources for ideas, poems or
passages to include. When writing, picture the two of you reading
your vows again after 15 years; try to use language that will stand
the test of time.
Write from the
heart. Vows in your own words truly express your deepest feelings.
You may wish to describe cherished qualities of your beloved or
state your hopes for your future together.
Keep it brief.
Your heart is full and your emotions run deep, but it's best to
keep vows on the shorter side (under 200 words).
Get an editor.
Ask someone you trust to review your statement at least a few days
before the wedding. This "editor" can help catch potentially embarrassing
errors and might even suggest changes to help you express your feelings
even better.
Practice. Stage
fright at the wedding could make you forget or stumble over a key
phrase. Read your vows aloud several times before your wedding day
to a friend or relative, or in front of a mirror. During the ceremony,
read them from a clearly printed text.
"Our marriage covenants
combine a couple's vows or other written expression of their feelings
with beautiful artwork," Kremer says. "Displayed on the wall of
the couple's home, a Heartscroll Covenant is a lasting testament
to their love."
Kremer has been crafting
artistic certificates for weddings and anniversaries since 1973.
Through Heartscroll, Kremer offers affordable, personalized marriage
documents that are becoming increasingly popular with couples, wedding
planners and invitation dealers across the country.
The covenants have also
become popular as a wedding gift item. The covenants come in 19
different designs with a selection of vows. Each is custom-produced
on heavy archival-quality paper and measures 13 by 19 inches. Check
out www.heartscroll.com
for even more ideas and suggestions on how to preserve and memorialize
your wedding vows and commitment, to view the company's entire catalog
of marriage covenants (for wedding, anniversary, renewal of vows
or commitment), matching wedding program covers and more, or to
find a dealer in your area. For more information, call (888) 664-9625.
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