Discover Wedding Customs
and Traditions
One of the most ancient
social customs in the world, weddings are full of customs and traditions.
From throwing rice to wearing a veil, have you ever wondered where
they came from? Many of these traditions have stood the test of
time and evolved from generation. Here's a look at some of the most
familiar wedding favorites and a few lesser-known
customs:
In England, it
was traditional to
bake a ring into the
wedding cake as a symbol of bliss and happiness. It was said that
the guest whose piece of cake contained the ring could look forward
to a year of uninterrupted happiness. * The custom of throwing rice
at newlyweds symbolized fertility. Today, some still throw rice,
but confetti, bubbles or rose petals are often substituted for safety
and environmental reasons. Rice is easy to slip on and it can be
fatal to birds who try to eat it off the ground. * Cutting the wedding
cake together, still a predominant ritual at weddings, symbolizes
the couple's unity and shared future.
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OF THE MOST ANCIENT social customs in the world, weddings
are full of customs. The tradition of cutting the wedding cake
together, still a predominant ritual at weddings, symbolizes
the couple's unity and shared future. |
Another old English custom was to throw a plate with a piece of
wedding cake out a window when the bride returned to her family
home after the wedding. If the plate broke, she could expect a happy
future with her husband. If the plate remained intact, the future
looked grim.
The
tradition of having members of the wedding party dress alike was
started with the hopes that the mischievous spirits would be confused
and go away.
The
tradition of wearing a veil has a similar origin. Originally, the
veil was thought to fool evil spirits by disguisng the bride. It
was not until the start of the 19th century in Britain that the
veil came to symbolize modesty and chastity.
It is believed
that an unmarried male guest who puts a slice of wedding cake under
his pillow when he sleeps will increase his chances of finding a
mate. An unmarried bridesmaid who does the same will dream about
her future husband.
In
the past, if a young man encountered a blind person, a pregnant
woman or a monk while on his way to propose to his intended bride,
it was believed that the marriage would be doomed if he continued
along his path because the images were thought to be bad omens.
May was an unlucky month to marry in Roman times because the Feast
of the Dead and the Festival of the Goddess of Chastity both occured
during this month.
Seeing
a lamb, frog, spider, black cat or rainbow on the way to the wedding
ceremony is a sign of good luck. Seeing an open grave, pig, lizard,
a nun or a monk are thought to be bad luck.
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